I gave a super good friend of mine a bj today… We skipped class and were at his place eating junk food and blah blah, and we started talking about our exs and why we are glad we broke up with them, moved on, etc.
Sooo he brought up his most recent ex gf who just so happens to be a friend of mine, a long time friend of mine, like I’ve spent the night at her place haha. This bit of info is important because she used to brag to us about how good she was in the sack.
WEELLLL he said that he’s actually happy they broke up cuz she wasn’t that good in bed. I started laughing, he asked why and I told him that she used to brag about how she’d do him. Well after some laughter and jokes and back and forth with stories he told me “she is absolutely terrible at giving head.” I once again lost it, and asked if she ever swallowed for him and his reply was “how was she ever supposed to swallow?? She never made me cum with her mouth, that’s how bad she is!”
AGAIN I laughed a whole lot so I asked him how many good bjs he’s ever gotten and he said he had never really had good head. That it always kinda just felt blah. So in my sexual depravity, I told him that I could make him cum with just head, we laughed I assured him I was being serious, and he laid down a bet. If I made him cum, he’d have to return the favor AND he’d have to take me out for a good dinner AND do my math homework.
If I couldn’t make him cum, he wouldn’t have to return the favor, but I’d have to make him cum in which ever way he chose and he would get to take some less than flattering pictures of me.
Well, there are no less than flattering pictures of me, so guess who won!
Now, as bad as he says my friend is at giving head, he is equally as bad. I had to tell him what to do. I literally walked him through pleasuring me!
So consider this some sexual advice for both the men and women.
Ladies. When going down on your man. There is not a lot to feel with just your lips. When you put his dick in your mouth, seal it tight, (NO TEETH) and suck your cheeks in, kinda like you’re doing a fish face. While doing that, fold your tongue in half and tuck it behind your teeth, THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT. Now, take a deep breathe, but not like obvious, make it sexy, and loosen your lips a little bit, let them slide down his dick, then when you’ve got as much as you can/are comfortable with in your mouth, tighten your lips up, press your tongue to his dick and slide on up. Do that until you need to exhale, and when you to, come up, don’t unsealed your lips, get all the way up to his head, breathe out through your nose, and with his head still in your mouth, unfold your tongue and run it length wise on that spot of the dick where his head is connected to his shaft. That spot is my little secret to you haha he will LOVE YOU for it. Also when sucking, add a little twisting motion with your head, makes it even better for him.
DONT FOR GET HIS BALLS!
I’ve personally found that men love it when midway through a bj you stop, duck your head and suck their balls, and give his a little handy while you suck them. If you’re not comfortable sucking his balls, massage them while you’re sucking his dick. Got long nails, GENTLY run your nails over them, DO NOT SCRATCH, that sensation (I’ve learned) also drives them crazy.
Now, Fellas….. you all complain that women are complicated at all times, BUT we are really easy to please.
But 1st things first, that porn lizard flicking of the tongue…. Don’t do that. Maybe some women like it, but for me, you do that to me and that’s a good way for me to get bored with sex real quick.
Do things right. 1st off. Don’t just jump onto her vagina, you kiss your way down your girl’s tummy, lick down from her belly button, kiss and lick around her pussy (SERIOUSLY hate that word), let her get herself hyped up for what she knows is gonna come. Run your finger tips all over her inner thighs, have your hands meet in the middle, use your fingers, rub around her clitoral hood, press lightly, separate your fingers kiss and lick what’s between your fingers. By now, having your hot tongue on her hood should really get her going. (Teasing is amazing). Once she is all sorts of good to go, dip both your arms under her legs and wrap them around her. You should now be face to face with her little happy button. Place your hand just over her clit, place a finger on either side of her clit, spread a little, A LITTLE… and gently pull back. Her clit now fully exposed is at your mercy.
Again, do not do the lizard tongue flick thing. Now every woman is different, but I’ve personally used these techniques and my girlie (Lori) loves it, I’ve had these techniques used on me, and I LOVE it, so give this a shot with your woman, see if she likes it…
Now that her clit is there for you, give it a couple long slow licks, running your tongue slllllooooowwwwllllyyy over it. After a couple links like that press the tip of your tongue to her clit and slowly run your tongue down her clit, again, nice and slow. Don’t be afraid to lock your lips on her clit and give it a Lil suck, while rubbing the tip of your tongue over it. Once you feel it’s time to go in for the kill… place your upper lip over her clit, and sandwich it with your tongue. It should go
And use the same technique, tip of tongue rub it down lengthwise, do this as fast as you can and she’ll beg for mercy before long. I would haha.
Also fingers are there for you to use. I personally don’t like fingering all that much, I’m the kinda girl that a certain point into oral, I want to lock my fingers between yours and squeeze till you let me breathe…
Hope you enjoyed =D